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Daily meals and habits

Sobremesa

The Spanish habit of staying at the table after a meal to talk, over coffee and a small drink, with no hurry to leave.

Sobremesa means over the table. It is the time spent sitting on after the food is finished: talking, digesting, drinking coffee, perhaps a liqueur. Spanish has a single word for it because it is treated as part of the meal. On a Sunday it can last longer than the eating did.

What it is

Nothing much is served, and that is the point. Plates are cleared, coffee is ordered, and conversation takes over. There may be a small glass of herb liqueur, brandy or aniseed spirit, sometimes offered by the house. A coffee with a dash of spirit is a common order. At home, nuts, fruit, sweets or a box of chocolates may appear. At Christmas the almond nougat and crumbly shortbreads of the season stay on the table all afternoon.

Why it lasts

The main meal in Spain is lunch, eaten late, and for many people it is the main social event of the day. Families and friends who meet to eat are in no hurry to part. Business lunches use the sobremesa to settle what was only touched on during the meal. The custom is shared across Spanish-speaking America. In Portuguese, by contrast, the same word simply means dessert, which sometimes confuses travellers.

How it works

In a Spanish restaurant the waiter will not bring the bill until you ask for it, and nobody will hint that you should go. To do so would be rude. A table booked for lunch is yours for the afternoon. The sobremesa begins when someone orders coffee and ends when the group decides. If you are a guest in a home, standing up to leave as soon as you have eaten can seem abrupt.

How to do it

  1. Do not book anything for straight after a Spanish lunch.
  2. When plates are cleared, order coffee. That opens the sobremesa.
  3. Accept a small liqueur if it is offered.
  4. Stay and talk. Follow the lead of your hosts on when to go.
  5. Ask for the bill only when the table is ready. Say la cuenta, por favor.

Good manners

  • Do not check the time or your phone in a pointed way.
  • Waiters are not ignoring you. Leaving you alone is the polite service.
  • At a home, offer to help clear, then sit back down.

What is eaten

TurrónHoney and nut nougat, shaped into bars or cakes, enjoyed at Christmas in Spain and ItalyPolvorónCrumbly Spanish shortbread made with flour, sugar, milk, and nutsCrème caramelCustard dessert topped with a layer of liquid caramelManchegoFirm sheep’s milk cheese from La Mancha, aged from two months to two yearsOrujoStrong, clear pomace spirit distilled from grape residue in northern SpainPatxaranA sweet liqueur made by steeping sloe berries in anisette

Also part of it, and being written: Café con leche, Carajillo.

Sources and further reading

About this page

Original text by the Thali desk, written with AI assistance and checked against the sources above. Customs vary from place to place. If we have something wrong, tell us.

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